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Begin with the invitation
Look for a dress request in the funeral notice or ask the family. Some prefer dark, formal clothes; others choose a colour, a theme or everyday clothing that reflects the person.
For an outdoor or green burial
Dress for the weather and uneven ground. Flat, secure shoes or boots are often more practical than heels on grass. Bring a coat, an umbrella or sun protection as needed.
For a church or crematorium
Smart clothing in subdued colours is a common choice, but the family’s request takes priority. Comfortable layers help in cooler buildings. You do not need to buy an expensive new outfit to show respect.
Children and individual needs
Choose comfortable clothing suitable for the occasion. Consider mobility, sensory and weather needs. If a uniform, religious dress or another personal detail matters, ask the organiser what is appropriate.
If you are still unsure
A brief question beforehand is better than feeling uncomfortable on the day. Ask where the ceremony and any gathering will take place, and whether part of the occasion will be outdoors.